My friend’s kid goes to a school with a fair amount of parents who use alternative everything to deal with inconveniences life introduces to them. This is why when her daughter contracted head lice yet again she said, “Ah! So that kid WAS loaded in tea tree oil. I just knew she was hiding it. I smelled it.”
Her daughter has very thick wavy light brown hair…a veritable lice nirvana…and this is not her first lice rodeo. She caught this one at the gate because she is diligent with her head checks. Still, it had advanced enough to be in the nymph stage. In another week she would have had a healthy population of new adults reproducing like, well, lice. Hopefully, the other parents in the class had been doing the same. Because, thanks to one parent who told their child that it was something that needed to be hidden, the other parents didn’t know that the infestation had begun.
My friend will report what she found to the school. She knows that it could come back round again if everyone in the room doesn’t take precautions. The other kids will get a note saying to be on the look out because that is the school policy (not all do). Her child won’t feel bad about it because she knows that she didn’t do anything wrong. She isn’t dirty. It can happen to anyone if they have head to head contact.
She is frustrated because if she been made aware of that her kid was exposed, she could have combed her out immediately. Not giving the insect a chance to get to the nymph stage. Not having to haul all of the linens and clothing to the laundromat because she lives in a city and does not own a washer and dryer. Not having to call all of the play dates from in between the time she contracted it and now.
We get cases like this all of the time at Lice Aunties Newton. Someone in a class or a camp or a daycare felt too shamed to report an infestation, usually because they had treated them and thought it was a done deal. They trusted a treatment shampoo and thought they got them all, not realizing that “super lice” have developed a resistance to the chemicals in many of them. Or maybe the nits (eggs) got missed in the whatever process they chose to use. Or the lice population had grown enough to spread the love before they treated the child. Any number of scenarios. All of them ending with some unsuspecting other family being exposed without warning.
My friend knows that it isn’t the end of the world. Her kid doesn’t feel humiliated, just inconvenienced. That it is the lice causing the lice although people hiding them don’t help. I wish everyone could figure that out.